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Things We Wished We Knew Before Retirement

Well it's great to be with you all again it's 
another video day for us – It is – So things that   we wish we knew before we retired almost 
sounds like a country music song there Tina   – And I guess you must be feeling lucky 
today Norm – Oh yeah got my lucky shirt   on so because we're filming been to 
Costco – Got the great deals haven't we   – We have so one of the things that we wish we knew 
before we retired was how free it is how stress   free no longer having to get up and go through the 
morning ritual of preparing yourself to go to work   and being accountable to somebody else all 
day long it's wonderful to be accountable to   your own self and your partner that's it 
you're your own person and it's such a freeing   feeling and we saw that with Tina when she gave 
up work the amount of stress we hadn't realized   until a few years after retirement just how 
different she was she'd lost all that stress of   meeting quotas and all that good stuff – And I think 
I'll just add Norm that when you're actually doing   the job you actually don't think it is stressful 
you don't think you are under all this   stress until you stop it do something else and 
you think wow this is a lot better we like this   it's great so just being accountable to ourselves 
we love it don't we – It is totally life changing   – One thing that we do think is very important 
before you retire is you do need to have a   discussion with your partner as to what it is 
that the ideas that you're both thinking you   have when you're going to retire you do need to 
have some goals about, do you want to travel do   you want to garden or do hobbies do you want 
to stay home you really do need to have that   conversation to make sure you're both on the 
same page – I think it is it is important and   we hear a lot from some comments especially 
married women who are saying that their husband   their frightened the husband will get under their feet 
because he'll be hanging around all the time in   retirement but that really isn't the case – Not 
for us is it – We've been secure as a couple for   the longest time and retirement hasn't changed 
how we feel about each other and about what   our expectations of each other is it's not as if 
we've all of a sudden being locked up together in   retirement (no) so it is important to figure out 
what you both want out of retirement and to have   that discussion a few years before you actually 
do retire (yeah) one thing to bear in mind is   the first few years of your retirement you'll 
be your most healthy so just use that health and   strength that you do have in the early years 
to achieve some of the goals that you want   – Yeah and if you want to be traveling do it while 
you've got that – Don't think about traveling if   that's on your list just do it right away – Yeah 
absolutely and that's what we've done isn't   it when we retired we just traveled everywhere 
didn't we it was great – About two years before we   retired we had an inspector come to the house 
for I don't even remember what it was but it was   some form of home inspection that we had to and 
so we got chatting with him because he was a few   years older than us but not that much and he told 
us that he had a house very similar to ours that   he had sold and now he was living an apartment 
and he went through the whole process of them   and how they moved to the apartment and how 
it was such an improvement on their life   and it was something we'd never ever considered 
– This was big news to us wasn't it we never even   thought about renting an apartment – We had been 
homeowners since we were 19 years old so to rent   we had that preconceived idea that it was throwing 
money away but the more that we looked into it so   after he left the next couple of days we spent 
many hours thinking about this we did a budget   of how much it cost to keep our mortgage free 
home – Yeah crunched all the numbers – And what the   rent would be and if we had sold the house and it 
made more and more sense to us to sell the house   to downsize into an apartment bank the money 
from the house live off that as an investment and   that's what we did – And that's what we did didn't 
we – But had that guy not come to our house we might   never have come up with that idea – No because 
originally we had thought that we would just   buy a smaller house didn't we – That's right yeah 
– So part of our decision when we had actually now   decided that we were going to rent and we realized 
that would take care of we wouldn't have all this   maintenance and stuff like that to do we decided 
after we started looking at apartments that if   we moved to a cheaper area could we benefit by 
getting the same as what we wanted in an apartment   but would it cost us less money so the more 
we looked into it we did have a family member   who lived in a cheaper place so we looked 
at the equivalent of renting an apartment   in this new place and it was so much cheaper 
wasn't it Norm – Because we initially thought   we would just sell our house and stay in 
the same area so we started shopping for   apartments to find out how much they cost and the 
availability and we were pretty surprised that   at the expense of them but we were prepared 
to pay that (yeah) and then we came to a what   you would call it a small town that's cheaper 
(yeah) we came to visit a family member here and so   we started looking around at the apartments here 
and they were substantially cheaper about $800   a month cheaper than where we were initially going 
to – Yeah and not only that Norm there was a lot of   extras with it wasn't that we got there was 
underground parking and what else a swimming pool   – And laundry facilities in the apartment – And that 
was one thing the gentleman had told us he didn't   have on-suite laundry he had it in a laundry room 
so we wanted that – But coming to the cheaper town   it wasn't just the rents that were 
cheaper everything was cheaper   the Tina's hairdresser as we've 
said in the past was cheaper it just permeated everything so our budget became 
so attainable (yeah) by moving – That gave us a lot   more money to be able to travel didn't it because 
we thought if we can save money on a daily basis   and it worked perfect didn't it – It did it was 
great, take a look at that if you do have family   that live in an area that might be cheaper or 
just consider going not knowing anybody – No it's   like a new adventure isn't it a new chapter in 
your life because we've made friends here and   they don't have any family just here but they've 
made it a new place for them haven't they – A lot   of people have moved out of the big cities to a 
small town because it's it's far more conducive to   retirement (yes) and friendlier another 
thing that you really need to consider   is where your friends are going to come from 
in retirement because once you leave work   those friendships tend to wither away because 
the only common bond you have was your job   your workplace so we've never 
really had lasting friendships from   work colleagues they've always been outside 
of there so it's it's critically important   to continue looking for friendships in retirement 
and being outgoing and prepared to speak to people   Tina when we moved to this apartment building 
they did have a social room and they did a coffee   morning and so she would go down there and we 
found out so much information about the town and   businesses to use – It was great wasn't it – It was – It 
was kind of my mission wasn't it to find out   new information and to try and make new friends 
which we did and we made some fabulous friendships   – Well in particular there was one couple that Tina 
made struck up a friendship with and they in turn   have introduced us to another couple yeah and then 
they in turn have introduced us to another couple   so that's how it goes – Yeah so now we've got 
a group of really close nice friends that we   socialize with don't we – And the thing that we have 
in common isn't an employer it's being retired   – It is isn't it – It really is so don't be afraid 
of striking out to a new city a new town   because it's relatively easy to make friendships 
– Yeah you just have to push yourself out there   a little don't you and be confident to going to 
things and it's very exciting isn't it so we hope   that everybody is staying safe – And keeping 
well – Until the next time bye bye, bye bye

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Well it's great to be with you all again it's 
another video day for us – It is – So things that   we wish we knew before we retired almost 
sounds like a country music song there Tina   – And I guess you must be feeling lucky 
today Norm – Oh yeah got my lucky shirt   on so because we're filming been to 
Costco – Got the great deals haven't we   – We have so one of the things that we wish we knew 
before we retired was how free it is how stress   free no longer having to get up and go through the 
morning ritual of preparing yourself to go to work   and being accountable to somebody else all 
day long it's wonderful to be accountable to   your own self and your partner that's it 
you're your own person and it's such a freeing   feeling and we saw that with Tina when she gave 
up work the amount of stress we hadn't realized   until a few years after retirement just how 
different she was she'd lost all that stress of   meeting quotas and all that good stuff – And I think 
I'll just add Norm that when you're actually doing   the job you actually don't think it is stressful 
you don't think you are under all this   stress until you stop it do something else and 
you think wow this is a lot better we like this   it's great so just being accountable to ourselves 
we love it don't we – It is totally life changing   – One thing that we do think is very important 
before you retire is you do need to have a   discussion with your partner as to what it is 
that the ideas that you're both thinking you   have when you're going to retire you do need to 
have some goals about, do you want to travel do   you want to garden or do hobbies do you want 
to stay home you really do need to have that   conversation to make sure you're both on the 
same page – I think it is it is important and   we hear a lot from some comments especially 
married women who are saying that their husband   their frightened the husband will get under their feet 
because he'll be hanging around all the time in   retirement but that really isn't the case – Not 
for us is it – We've been secure as a couple for   the longest time and retirement hasn't changed 
how we feel about each other and about what   our expectations of each other is it's not as if 
we've all of a sudden being locked up together in   retirement (no) so it is important to figure out 
what you both want out of retirement and to have   that discussion a few years before you actually 
do retire (yeah) one thing to bear in mind is   the first few years of your retirement you'll 
be your most healthy so just use that health and   strength that you do have in the early years 
to achieve some of the goals that you want   – Yeah and if you want to be traveling do it while 
you've got that – Don't think about traveling if   that's on your list just do it right away – Yeah 
absolutely and that's what we've done isn't   it when we retired we just traveled everywhere 
didn't we it was great – About two years before we   retired we had an inspector come to the house 
for I don't even remember what it was but it was   some form of home inspection that we had to and 
so we got chatting with him because he was a few   years older than us but not that much and he told 
us that he had a house very similar to ours that   he had sold and now he was living an apartment 
and he went through the whole process of them   and how they moved to the apartment and how 
it was such an improvement on their life   and it was something we'd never ever considered 
– This was big news to us wasn't it we never even   thought about renting an apartment – We had been 
homeowners since we were 19 years old so to rent   we had that preconceived idea that it was throwing 
money away but the more that we looked into it so   after he left the next couple of days we spent 
many hours thinking about this we did a budget   of how much it cost to keep our mortgage free 
home – Yeah crunched all the numbers – And what the   rent would be and if we had sold the house and it 
made more and more sense to us to sell the house   to downsize into an apartment bank the money 
from the house live off that as an investment and   that's what we did – And that's what we did didn't 
we – But had that guy not come to our house we might   never have come up with that idea – No because 
originally we had thought that we would just   buy a smaller house didn't we – That's right yeah 
– So part of our decision when we had actually now   decided that we were going to rent and we realized 
that would take care of we wouldn't have all this   maintenance and stuff like that to do we decided 
after we started looking at apartments that if   we moved to a cheaper area could we benefit by 
getting the same as what we wanted in an apartment   but would it cost us less money so the more 
we looked into it we did have a family member   who lived in a cheaper place so we looked 
at the equivalent of renting an apartment   in this new place and it was so much cheaper 
wasn't it Norm – Because we initially thought   we would just sell our house and stay in 
the same area so we started shopping for   apartments to find out how much they cost and the 
availability and we were pretty surprised that   at the expense of them but we were prepared 
to pay that (yeah) and then we came to a what   you would call it a small town that's cheaper 
(yeah) we came to visit a family member here and so   we started looking around at the apartments here 
and they were substantially cheaper about $800   a month cheaper than where we were initially going 
to – Yeah and not only that Norm there was a lot of   extras with it wasn't that we got there was 
underground parking and what else a swimming pool   – And laundry facilities in the apartment – And that 
was one thing the gentleman had told us he didn't   have on-suite laundry he had it in a laundry room 
so we wanted that – But coming to the cheaper town   it wasn't just the rents that were 
cheaper everything was cheaper   the Tina's hairdresser as we've 
said in the past was cheaper it just permeated everything so our budget became 
so attainable (yeah) by moving – That gave us a lot   more money to be able to travel didn't it because 
we thought if we can save money on a daily basis   and it worked perfect didn't it – It did it was 
great, take a look at that if you do have family   that live in an area that might be cheaper or 
just consider going not knowing anybody – No it's   like a new adventure isn't it a new chapter in 
your life because we've made friends here and   they don't have any family just here but they've 
made it a new place for them haven't they – A lot   of people have moved out of the big cities to a 
small town because it's it's far more conducive to   retirement (yes) and friendlier another 
thing that you really need to consider   is where your friends are going to come from 
in retirement because once you leave work   those friendships tend to wither away because 
the only common bond you have was your job   your workplace so we've never 
really had lasting friendships from   work colleagues they've always been outside 
of there so it's it's critically important   to continue looking for friendships in retirement 
and being outgoing and prepared to speak to people   Tina when we moved to this apartment building 
they did have a social room and they did a coffee   morning and so she would go down there and we 
found out so much information about the town and   businesses to use – It was great wasn't it – It was – It 
was kind of my mission wasn't it to find out   new information and to try and make new friends 
which we did and we made some fabulous friendships   – Well in particular there was one couple that Tina 
made struck up a friendship with and they in turn   have introduced us to another couple yeah and then 
they in turn have introduced us to another couple   so that's how it goes – Yeah so now we've got 
a group of really close nice friends that we   socialize with don't we – And the thing that we have 
in common isn't an employer it's being retired   – It is isn't it – It really is so don't be afraid 
of striking out to a new city a new town   because it's relatively easy to make friendships 
– Yeah you just have to push yourself out there   a little don't you and be confident to going to 
things and it's very exciting isn't it so we hope   that everybody is staying safe – And keeping 
well – Until the next time bye bye, bye bye

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Well it'' s great to be with you all once more it'' s. one more video clip day for us – It is – So points that we wish we knew before we retired virtually.
sounds like a nation songs song there Tina – As well as I think you have to be really feeling fortunate.
today Norm – Oh yeah got my lucky t shirt on so due to the fact that we'' re filming been to.
Costco – Got the terrific bargains sanctuary'' t we -We have so among the things that we desire we recognized.
prior to we retired was how cost-free it is how stress totally free no more needing to get up and go through the.
early morning ritual of preparing on your own to visit function as well as being liable to someone else all.
I'' ll just include Norm that when you'' re really getting the job done you actually wear'' t believe it is stressful.
you wear'' t believe you are under all this stress and anxiety up until you stop it do something else and also.
you assume wow this is a lot far better we like this it'' s terrific so simply being accountable to ourselves.
we love it put on'' t we -It is completely life transforming – One point that we do believe is extremely important.
before you retire is you do need to have a discussion with your companion regarding what it is.
that the suggestions that you'' re both assuming you'have when you ' re going
to retire you do require to. have some objectives about, do you desire to take a trip do you desire to yard or do hobbies do you desire. to stay at home you'really do require to have that discussion to ensure you ' re both on the. very same page- I believe it is it is important and we hear a whole lot from some comments especially. wives who are claiming that their spouse their scared the hubby will certainly get under their feet.
because he'' ll be hanging around constantly in retirement yet that actually isn'' t the situation – Not. for us is it -We ' ve been safe and secure as a pair for the lengthiest time and also retirement hasn'' t transformed.
just how we feel about each various other and about what our assumptions of each other is it'' s not as if'. we ' ve all of an abrupt being secured together in retired life (no) so it is essential to figure out.
what you both desire out of retired life as well as to have that conversation a couple of years prior to you actually.
do retire (yeah) one point to birth in mind is the very first couple of years of your retired life you''
ll. be your most healthy so simply make use of that health and wellness and toughness that you do have in the early years.
to accomplish a few of the goals that you want – Yeah and also if you wish to be taking a trip do it while.
you'' ve obtained that -Don ' t think of taking a trip if that'' s on your checklist just do it as soon as possible – Yeah.
absolutely and that'' s what we ' ve done isn ' t it when we retired we just traveled all over.
didn'' t we it was terrific -About 2 years prior to we retired we had actually an assessor involved your home.
for I put on'' t even remember what it was but it was some form of home assessment that we had to and also.
We obtained talking with him because he was a few years older than us yet not that much and also he informed.
us that he had a house really comparable to ours that he had marketed and also currently he was living an apartment.
and he went with the entire procedure of them and also exactly how they moved to the apartment or condo and also how.
it was such a renovation on their life and it was something we'' d never ever taken into consideration.- This was big information to us wasn'' t it we never ever also thought of renting out an apartment – We had been.
homeowners because we were 19 years old so to rent we had that preconceived notion that it was tossing.
money away however the a lot more that we considered it so after he left the next couple of days we invested.
lots of hrs assuming about this we did a spending plan of exactly how much it cost to keep our home mortgage complimentary.
home – Yeah ground all the numbers – As well as what the rental fee would certainly be as well as if we had actually marketed your house and it.
made an increasing number of sense to us to offer the house to downsize into an apartment financial institution the money.
from your home live off that as a financial investment and also that'' s what we did- As well as that ' s what we did didn'' t. we -Yet had that guy not involve our home we could never ever have generated that suggestion – No since.
originally we had actually believed that we would certainly simply buy a smaller home didn'' t we- That ' s appropriate yeah.- So component of our decision when we had actually currently determined that we were going to rent out and we recognized.
that would certainly deal with we wouldn'' t have all this maintenance as well as things like that to do we made a decision.
after we began checking out apartments that if we transferred to a more affordable area might we profit by.
obtaining the like what we desired in an apartment or condo but would it cost us less money so the a lot more.
we checked out it we did have a family members participant that resided in a cheaper location so we looked.
at the equivalent of renting an apartment in this brand-new area as well as it was a lot less expensive.
wasn'' t it Standard -Since we initially thought we would just market our residence and remain in.
the exact same location so we began shopping for apartment or condos to locate out just how much they cost and also the.
schedule as well as we were pretty surprised that at the cost of them but we were prepared.
to pay that (yeah) and afterwards we concerned a what you would certainly call it a village that'' s less expensive.( yeah )we concerned go to a family members member below therefore we started checking out at the homes here.
as well as they were significantly less costly regarding $800 a month cheaper than where we were initially going.
to – Yeah as well as not only that Standard there was a great deal of bonus with it wasn'' t that we obtained there was.
below ground car park and what else a swimming pool – And also laundry centers in the house – As well as that.
was one point the gent had informed us he didn'' t have on-suite washing he had it in a washing room.
so we desired that – But involving the less costly town it wasn'' t simply the rental fees that were.
cheaper whatever was less costly the Tina'' s beautician as we''
ve. stated in the past was more affordable it simply permeated whatever so our budget plan came to be.
so achievable (yeah) by relocating – That offered us a lot more money to be able to travel didn'' t it due to the fact that. we believed if we can save money every day and it worked best didn'' t it -It did it was. great, have a look at that if you do have household that live in a location that could be cheaper or.
simply consider going not recognizing anyone – No it'' s like a new journey isn'' t it a brand-new chapter in. your life since we'' ve made pals below as well as they wear'' t have any household simply right here but they''
ve. made it a new place for them place'' t they- A lot of individuals have relocated out of the big cities to a.
town since it'' s it ' s much more for retirement (yes) and also friendlier another.
thing that you truly require to take into consideration is where your buddies are going to originate from.
in retirement due to the fact that once you leave work those friendships often tend to perish away because.
the only typical bond you have was your task your work environment so we'' ve never ever.
truly had long-term relationships from work coworkers they'' ve constantly been outdoors.
of there so it'' s it ' s seriously important to proceed searching for friendships in retired life.
and being outward bound as well as prepared to speak with individuals Tina when we transferred to this apartment.
they did have a social area and they did a coffee early morning and so she would drop there as well as we.
learnt so much details concerning the town as well as businesses to utilize – It was excellent wasn'' t it – It was -It. was kind of my objective wasn ' t it to learn new details as well as to try and also make brand-new close friends.
which we did as well as we made some wonderful relationships – Well particularly there was one pair that Tina.
made struck up a friendship with and they subsequently have actually introduced us to one more couple yeah and after that.
they consequently have actually presented us to an additional couple to ensure that'' s exactly how it goes -Yeah so now we'' ve obtained.
a team of truly close nice friends that we socialize with put on'' t we -And also the important things that we have. alike isn ' t an employer it ' s being retired – It is isn ' t it -It actually is so put on ' t be worried. of setting out to a brand-new city a new community because it'' s relatively simple to make friendships.
– Yeah you just have to press on your own available a little put on'' t you as well as be confident to going to.
points and it'' s extremely interesting isn ' t it so we hope that everybody is staying secure – And also keeping.
well – Till the next time bye bye, bye bye.

Achievable (yeah) by relocating – That gave us a whole lot more cash to be able to travel didn'' t it because.

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